(This section has been adapted from the Century Council.)

In speaking with your son or daughter about drug and alcohol use, please share realistically your own experiences, both positive and negative. Keep in mind, however, that it may not be helpful to boast about amounts used. In addition, be clear in what you expect from your son or daughter about things such as:

• Attending class 
• Drinking and driving 
• Financial responsibility 
• Choices regarding drinking 
• Study time vs. social time 
• Staying in touch 

To assist with this process, below are some conversation starters: 

• How will you decide whether or not to drink, smoke pot or use other drugs? 
• What will you do if you find yourself at a party with only alcohol to drink? 
• What will you do if someone offers you illegal drugs? 
• What will you do if your roommate only wants to party? 
• How will you handle it if a friend is drunk or high and you think he/she needs medical attention?